The move to an assisted living community not only changes a parent or senior loved one’s lifestyle but yours, as their caregiver, as well. You must now entrust the brunt of their care to assisted living staff. Will they provide the same level of care and love to your parent?
Read these top tips on how you can avoid distance and distrust and take a more cooperative approach with your senior loved one’s assisted living staff.
Including Assisted Living Staff in Your Senior Living Care Team
Your assisted living staff will be better able to do their jobs if you and your parent bring them into the fold and treat them as active and welcome participants in your senior loved one’s care moving forward.
There are a number of reasons to take this approach:
1. It can increase your trust in the care your loved one is receiving.
It’s natural for family members to worry about the quality of care a senior will receive in a new assisted living community. The best way to put your fears to rest is to get to know the staff and regularly ask for updates.
It’s worked for Tom Lang and his family at Willow Towers. “I was worried that moving would have a negative impact on my mother, who is on the dementia spectrum,” he said. “But the assisted living staff let me know that she seemed to be adjusting well to activities and the environment… because we’re in such close contact, they were able to learn a lot about her and tailor activities,” he adds. “She’s playing bingo, listening to music — and painting, which she used to love doing! It’s a very full life.”
When you know your loved one is in good hands, you can let go of some of the stress and worry you feel about their care.
2. The assisted living staff will be a big part of you and your senior loved one’s lives.
For as long as your parent or senior loved one lives in assisted living, staff will become the main people in charge of helping them with activities of daily living (ADLs) like getting dressed and taking their meds.
They’ll also be some of the main social contacts your loved one has in-between your visits and will become the familiar faces you see every time you’re there.
Your lives will be better if you stay on good terms with your loved one’s assisted living staff and make an effort to get to know them.
3. You have the knowledge they can use to provide more personalized care.
While you need assisted living staff to help with your senior loved one’s care, they also need you in order to do their jobs as well as possible.
Jocelyn Nadua, a Care Coordinator at C-Care Health Services, explains, “taking the time to know one’s interest and life story has always been our key to helping carry out individualized care plans. Having open and frequent communications with family members and friends allows us to get an inside look into the lives of our residents.”
Your loved one’s care needs, personality and preferences are all unique. The more you interact and openly communicate with assisted living staff, the better they’ll understand the person they’re taking care of and how to best treat them.
4. You need regular updates on anything that changes — and so do they.
As your parent or senior loved one ages, their needs inevitably change. You want to know sooner rather than later when that happens and you want to make sure that assisted living staff knows as well.
The best way for everyone involved in your loved one’s care to stay aware and on top of all changes is by keeping the lines of communication open. When you notice something different about their behavior when they’re home for a visit, make sure you let the staff know so they can make any needed changes to the care routine.
Also, regularly ask assisted living staff about any changes they notice so you can advise on how best to handle them and know to bring them up with the doctor if needed.
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